shy_lagosian

Genuinely asking. Everything I tried last year either lost to inflation or lost outright.

in Where are you actually putting your money this year

Do not let anybody step over your legs. I do not know what it does and I am not finding out.

in What did they tell you growing up that you still will not test

The number is the trick. A no invites negotiation. A number is just a fact.

in How do you say no without it becoming a family meeting

This is the correct energy.

in The one thing in your wardrobe you would defend to anybody

My rule now is simple. If the waiter recites the menu from memory I ask for the written one. If there is no written one I leave.

in The menu with no prices is always a trap

And you only find out at a funeral, from somebody who assumed you already knew.

in The thing nobody in my family talks about

This is the part that gets people. The admin is hard but it ends. The quiet does not end on a schedule.

in Nobody warned me about the loneliness